Overall, my vegan month was very enlightening, and I encourage anyone who is interested in giving it a try! I do firmly believe that the best way to do anything is to do it 100% and then forgive yourself the slip-ups, so trying to go cold-turkey for a whole month, but allowing yourself a few exceptions is the best way to try anything. You end up at 95% whereas if you’d gone in saying you’ll go 50% you’ll end up at 0%. Seriously. I fully believe this.
I also think it’s true you have to give something up for at least three weeks to break your addiction from it, so it was a good amount of time for me (despite numerous slip-ups!). I didn’t think I could go two weeks without dairy or eggs, but I did! And I still think fondly of cheese but I no longer have the addiction. Which is WONDERFUL.
Overall, I really enjoyed going around telling people I was vegan. It was a little embarrassing, but it really cut down on those awkward dilemmas that used to occur on days throughout this past year where I’d tell myself I was going to try to not eat any eggs or dairy products just that day, but not tell anyone else, and then sure enough I’d go out to dinner that evening, someone would order a souffle, and then they’d offer me a bite, and I’d feel like I’d have to accept, because I’m well-known for really liking souffles. What was I going to say? No, I don’t want your souffle? It’s just easier to go along with kind gestures. I think, anyway! (Or worse — I would find myself ordering the souffle. Oh, the feeling of failure! And the reason why swearing to go 100% works so much better than “trying to cut back.”)
The part I found difficult was always being on the lookout. There was the caprese incident, where I wasn’t vigilant about making sure I’d gotten a tofu caprese and the not the mozzarella caprese before eating half of it. I didn’t write about it but I also bought a bunch of Morningstar faux-sausage products and ate a few of them before I realized they aren’t really vegan. I do not know why I didn’t read the label carefully — I was half-asleep apparently. I saw the words “veggie sausage patties” and naturally assumed they’d be vegan. and full of vegetables. BIG MISTAKE. They have egg whites and whey powder. I’m VERY DISAPPOINTED with old Morningstar there. Their website, ironically enough, is called “see veggies differently dot com.” See veggies differently, Morningstar? More like see egg whites and whey powder hidden in your highly processed bean powder differently, if you ask me.
The other part I found difficult was giving up dessert. Very few restaurants have vegan dessert options, and I just had to deal with that. I’m usually a dessert-aholic, but by the end of this month I’ve gotten to the point where i no longer crave dessert any more, which is Very Nice. At first I had to grit my teeth while everyone else was eating dessert, and promise myself lots of Coconut Bliss faux ice cream and Trader Joe’s dark chocolate almonds once I got home, but now I see the dessert tray, and it no longer holds any allure for me. I don’t even mind when other people eat large amounts of dessert around me. I just order tea or coffee and I’m fine. I don’t rush home and eat faux-ice cream or Tofutti cuties right after dinner. (Now I wait till around 11pm when the munchies hit and eat them then.)
The really funny part was the number of people I met who don’t know what vegan means. They’d get this look of confusion on their face and ask me all sorts of questions about what is, and what is not, vegan. Is chocolate vegan? Yes, if it’s dark chocolate. Is alcohol vegan? Yes, if it hasn’t been filtered through gelatin. Are potato chips vegan? Yes, they’re made from a plant and oil. Are french fries vegan? Ditto. A LOT of people seem to operate on the “if it tastes good it’s probably not vegan” assumption. And a lot of people don’t seem to know which end of an oven is up, because they have no idea what items commonly have eggs in them — onion rings, biscuits, french bread, handmade pasta, cookies, etc. I really didn’t think so many people have never cooked anything in their lives. It’s just amazing.
(PS: Those restaurants that claim they have vegan options when I call you on the phone but don’t when I arrive? I’m pissed at you. You make it really awkward when I arrive there with my friends after assuring them we can all eat there. Vegan=no animal products. Vegetarian=eggs and dairy are ok. We live in the San Francisco bay area. Learn these things.)
The Very Good thing about my vegan month is that I lost four pounds over Christmas. Nice, eh? Also I haven’t had a single blemish since the beginning of December, which is also unusual — I usually get a few massive ones just in time for Christmas photographs. (I have a jar of Bare Escentuals concealer that I’ve been trying to use up and replace with something 100%-cruelty-free for two years now that I haven’t TOUCHED in the past two weeks.) Those things, along with my newfound confidence in setting up whole vegan meals, which I really enjoy, have made me very happy I tried to be vegan for a month. I’m not sure if I’ll be 100%-vegan in the future, especially since Restaurant Month is coming up, but the actual quantities of dairy and eggs I usually include in my diet will be 95% down from what they were last year, which I feel very happy about.
If you’re not vegan, I highly encourage you to try to go a whole month with no animal products. I’ve talked to you — you give me that look of absolute incomprehension of how anyone could give up real butter. But I swear — it’s just an addiction! Just in principle, you should try to give up dairy products for a month. It’ll be hard for two weeks, but just like heroin, once you’re clean, you won’t find the cravings so hard to stand 